Not so girly, yet I dress up myself. Without any occasion or anyone else to see. Just me, my stuff and my mirror. I pamper myself when no one else can. Just to make me feel special.
I know it is kind of weird. People usually try to look nice when they are happy or excited. And loose that excitement when feel low. In lack of that energy and confidence to live life completely and in lack of remembering their uniqueness.
I am a bit reverse. When I am not feeling good I cheer myself up by pampering my body.
Usually, not giving much heed to self pampering or dressing up like a queen or even applying a mascara. I tend to dress up more and more when I need to tell myself that I am an important person too. That I do matter. That I can too look good. That good enough that I can swoon over my own features. That I can see myself in the mirror and tell how beautiful I look.
I start up with a good nail paint. Just painting my nails beautifully with colours, various colours, lively colours. Then some eyeliner to give my eyes that lively shine. I make my hair. Trying different types of hairstyle. A beautiful dress that can compliment my personality. Not much girly but the one that make me feel special. A good pair of shoes are just icing on the cake. And I am ready. Ready to face the world and it’s challenges. With a smile. With lots of confidence. Forgetting all my past mistakes and failures.
And here I go. Beautifully walking with a smile to get what I want in all that grace and confidence.
Voice Of Dreams 
Hey Rakshanda, have you forgot to apply that thing ‘mascara’, or ‘Kajal’ on the lower palpebra of your eyes? 😜
Or is it any new trend of yours 😜
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I don’t apply it there. It doesn’t suits me.😉 It’s my new found discovery about myself cause it has been just a few months that I have leart all this. So just experimenting.
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Being a girl, you’re saying this? 😱
Did you not know, girls are supposed to do all these things from the very beginning !? 😂😁
Don’t tell you you were a tomboy! 😷
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No! I am not a tomboy. I love all this stuff. But I think some things are more important than that. And I have always been more inclined towards studies. But now I make time for everything.😎
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Thank God you’re not one of them. I’m relieved now. 😁
Yes yes, eventually you’ll have to learn/do this, so why not start right now. It is a great start. You look great. I mean your eyes. 😜
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Thanks😃
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Looking nice..and I loved the nail paint… 🙂
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Thank you maniparna😊 Thanks for stopping by. Happy blogging.
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Welcome…Happy blogging… 🙂
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Wow Rakshanda… That’s a great view of yours.. I also have observed when happy people want to look good.. And nail paint is awesome..A great way to boost up the confidence when in an bad mood is to divert our mind.. And dressing up and make up is the best for girls.. My sister is no different. But she applies Kajal very often on the lower part of the eye. Have a great weekend.. Do biology students have weekends?? Lol.. Have a great weekend anyway.. 🙂
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I am new to this makeup business, so I have lot to learn😉. No, biology student don’t have weekend😔. We have to make time for ourselves.
Cheers! Have a great a weekend to you too.
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Yes.. No probs.. You will learn with time.. Oh!! Then you will make time for yourself for sure.. Thanks.. 🙂
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😊
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Eye liner
Looks diviner
Your eyes are a winner.
Yes,our outlook always gives a confidence to us. A positive post(Y).
Cheers!!
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Thank you so much Upen for your lines. Yes, a positive post. 😉
Cheers! Have a good day. 🙂
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You are very welcome:)
you too;)
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You’re not weird. I do this too 🙂 If I can make myself look pretty – even if it’s just for me – then I can cheer myself up. Nice post! I can relate to a lot of what you said.
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Happy that I found someone like me😉😊. Happy blogging!
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I liked your post… That nail color is really good.. Is it the Maybelline’s ‘Flash of Color’?
I truly feel dressing up makes one feel better about themselves… I have this ritual before delivering a presentation to the public, I make sure to wear a good lip color😂.. I feel if my lips look good, my speech will also improve!😂 stupid, but works always!
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Looks beautiful.
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Nice Nail color! And I love the way you have done your eyes 🙂 I guess everyone should know themselves better the way you do. How to lift oneself up when one feels low. For some it is pampering themselves, for others a walk or a ride, for some sitcoms etc. I think this is perfectly normal or in fact better! You don’t just leave yourself were you fell. Nice post. Made me think.
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Thank you so much rajini😊 u made my day with your words. I too think that it is important to know when to stop sulking and rise again.
Once again thanks for stopping by.😊😚
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